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花开花落梦依旧,荏苒冬春筑慧心

作者:周珏珉 发布时间:2013/11/29 12:36:44 点击数:14266

 ——东华大学讲课花絮(周珏珉总经理主讲)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

    昨天晚上,应东华大学学生会的邀请,我作为市妇联“职业飞翔计划”中的“女企业家讲师团进校园”讲师,在东华大学进行了了一场专场讲座,同学们给我出了一个非常浪漫的课题——花开花落梦依旧,荏苒冬春筑慧心。

        几天前,我就收到了一位好友在微信上发给我的照片,看到了东华大学校里早已挂上了我的讲座的宣传横幅。东华大学也派代表专程和我作了事先沟通,知道这场讲座同学们很期待,尽管在复旦大学、上海大学、医科大学、上海师大等高校作过多场讲座,但面对同学们的盛情我还是有些“压力山大”。

                                                                                                                                              

       虽然近日身体不佳一直在住院,但由于是事先约定,我也不好违约。中午在医院匆匆挂完盐水,下午就应纺织工会邀请,为“申达股份”的女职工周未学校上了一堂课。随即又赶场到东华。 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        

    应“花开花落梦依旧,荏苒冬春筑慧心”的课题要求,我以“梦”开场:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                

    当今时代,是一个有着美好梦想的时代,也是一个可让我们每一个有志者梦想成真的时代。

                                                                                                                                 

         一个人可以一无所有,但是不能没有梦想。 

         

          正是因为有梦想,我们才经历坎坷依然前行; 

                                                                                                                                                                      

        正是因为有梦想,我们才历经沧桑信心不改。

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       

        梦想——从大学生活起航  

                                                                                                                                                                                        

        如果说人生是一本书,那么大学生活便是书中最美丽的彩页;    

                                                                                                                                                                                 

        如果说人生是一台戏,那么大学生活便是戏中最精彩的一幕;                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

    如果说人生是一次旅行,那么拥有大学生活中最绚烂的大学生们又该在人生旅途中如何成长?

                                                                                               

    我们曾经的梦想因向往大学校园生活而起航,我们能否在大学这个“亚社会”里抽丝剥茧后看到生活的航向,洞察今后自己人生发展的全貌?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

        课中,我很用心地选了一些和“梦”有关的歌名,编了下面一段“梦之歌”(括号里皆歌名)。

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            

    在《梦开始的地方》:  

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

         这是一个有《梦》的时代,我们生活在一个《梦开始地方》,我们每一个人都是《追梦人》,在《梦里故乡》,怀揣着《多少柔情多少梦》,实现着《好人好梦》。

      

       《童梦》——美好而朦胧,尤如《一帘幽梦》,穿上《梦的衣裳》《为梦飞翔》,这是最幸福的梦; 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

    《少年梦》——充满着新奇的幻想,就象《雪域蓝色梦》,在《梦驼铃》声中,幻想着在《刀剑如梦》中《笑拥江山梦》,这是最热切的成长梦; 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     

     《青春梦》——是美妙的希望,在《新鸳鸯蝴蝶梦》的梦境里,和《梦中情人》《梦醉西楼》,《相思比梦长》,这是最温暖的梦;

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

    但无论是《一场游戏一场梦》还是《为爱梦一生》,当我们《梦醒时分》,才发现我们每个人在经历了《最真的梦》后,都能让《梦想成真》、在《我的未来不是梦》的期待中,实现着我们最最质朴的《中国之梦》。

 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  

    在随后的一个半小时里,我和同学们分享了我的“逐梦史”:  

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        

  “在 每个人心中都有一个属于自己的梦想,想是一期待,梦想是一种激励,梦想是一个目标,梦想是一个高度,梦想是一份对自己未来与生命的责任。在我的学生时代,红色教育贯穿了我们学习生活的始终,英雄梦成为了我一生的梦想和追求,长大了,我奋斗了,我努力着,但我深深地体会到,追求梦想的征程是艰辛的,但更是充实的!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 

    孩子们,当前对你们学生时代来说,梦想现阶段还一种理想化的美好蓝图,而要把这幅美丽的蓝图化为现实,靠的是知识的积累,靠的是信念的坚守,靠的是奋斗的坚持,更靠的是永不言败的精神。”  

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 

    寄语年轻的朋友们:    

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    

        永恒的事业需要持久的坚持    

                                                                                                                                                                                      

        责任就是对要做的事充满爱

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       

        奉献是人生天平上最大的法码 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       

        耐心地等待下一个春天的到来

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

    行动就是通向成功唯一的捷径 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        

        成功需要的仅仅是勇敢地迈出第一步

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        

        人生是一个大舞台,你是一个舞者而不是看客

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

    课后,十多位同学踊跃提问,(那场景不亚于一场新闻发布会)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        

    周老师,你“铺路石”的网名背后蕴含着什么意喻?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      

        周老师,您认为在走创业路和技术路方面我该如何选择?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

        周姨,你认为做一名辛劳的职业女性和一名称职的全职太太,哪个更有成就感和幸福感? 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       

        周老师,我该如何处理好跟同宿舍性格另类的同学处理好关系?              

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            

        周老师,我大学后在读研和投身工作实践中该如何选择?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        

        周老师,当今社会从小就把我们女孩子当男生培养,希望我们各方面都不服输,那么怎么做我们女性

 

才算成功,是否一定要和男生一起去打拼天下?   ...........     

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

     面对同学们的热烈提问,我根据自己的经验和体会一一作了解答,也不知同学们是否解渴。 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        

        课后同学们一直不肯离去,等着要和我合影,同学代表还为我送上的鲜花,同学们的热情让我感动。

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

        在感恩节的祝福声中,我教了同学们一句手语:“爱,是我们共同的语言!”作为我们今后的“接头暗号”。

 

        

         续:                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        

         昨晚回到家后,看到许多同学都加了我微信并留下了自己的感言。      

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  

   "周老师,谢谢您今天到东华大学演讲,演讲很精彩你教导我们时刻都要有好的心态,机会就会降临。思维决定行为。你就像我的母亲一样,循循善诱的教导我们。谢谢您!你身体不好,请注意自己的身体啊,就不要回复我了。我们爱您。"                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            

    今早一打开手机,又收到了同学的短信:                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        

       周老师早上好@_@                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          

        昨天晚上我听了您的讲座。可以说是笑着进去,哭着出来!感觉您跟我妈妈很像很像!我现在是大二学生。正处于迷茫期,不知未来的方向。但是到讲座后我便豁然开朗了。我终于找到了我努力的方向。也有了动力。                                    

        本来想当面表达感谢,不过看您讲了那么久,身体又不好,所以借此机会在这里表达我最真挚的谢意!真的谢谢您!! 

 

    

    

    
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